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A Wolf at the Table: A Memoir of My Father by Augusten Burroughs
Book Summary InformationAuthor: Augusten Burroughs Edition: Hardcover Audio: English (Published) Format: Bargain Price Published: 2008-04-29 ISBN: N/A Number of pages: 256 Publisher: St. Martin's Press
Book Reviews of A Wolf at the Table: A Memoir of My FatherBook Review: Enjoyable Read But Might Be Another Story Between The Lines Summary: 3 StarsI enjoyed reading the memoir but also understand why it has been given an "unreliable narrator" tag by some readers. It's perplexing to me that while documenting his father's severe, painful, pervasive and bloody skin disease, Burroughs never addresses the possibility that that might be why his father didn't want him climbing on his lap or hugging him. I was similarly confused that there wasn't more reflection on his part as to why in God's name, after finally being rid of his father, he would then call him for food and invite him over. I know the father/son bond can be enormously strong regardless of how rotten the father is, but there's a clunkiness to this chronicle that suggests to me Burroughs needed to plumb his emotions and motivations a bit further. Similarly, speculating to some extent on the emotions and motivations of his family members might have given this memoir more resonance. Nonetheless, a gripping read.
Summary of A Wolf at the Table: A Memoir of My Father"As a little boy, I had a dream that my father had taken me to the woods where there was a dead body. He buried it and told me I must never tell. It was the only thing we'd ever done together as father and son, and I promised not to tell. But unlike most dreams, the memory of this one never left me. And sometimes.I wasn't altogether sure about one thing: was it just a dream?" When Augusten Burroughs was small, his father was a shadowy presence in his life: a form on the stairs, a cough from the basement, a silent figure smoking a cigarette in the dark. As Augusten grew older, something sinister within his father began to unfurl.? Something dark and secretive that could not be named.? Betrayal after shocking betrayal ensued, and Augusten's childhood was over. The kind of father he wanted didn't exist for him. This father was distant, aloof, uninterested. And then the "games" began. With A Wolf at the Table, Augusten Burroughs makes a quantum leap into untapped emotional terrain: the radical pendulum swing between love and hate, the unspeakably terrifying relationship between father and son. Told with scorching honesty and penetrating insight, it is a story for anyone who has ever longed for unconditional love from a parent. Though harrowing and brutal, A Wolf at the Table will ultimately leave you buoyed with the profound joy of simply being alive. It's a memoir of stunning psychological cruelty and the redemptive power of hope. ?
Amazon Significant Seven, April 2008: When I started reading A Wolf at the Table, I thought I knew what to expect. Augusten Burroughs captures intense experience with an inexplicably cool remove, imparting a stillness and purity to emotions that would likely run amok in anyone else's hands. I love this quality of his writing, and it's present in full force in this memoir of a childhood spent in thrall to a predatory and deeply unpredictable father. What I wasn't prepared for was the suspense--the dread-filled, nearly sonorous waiting for the worst to happen. An artful sort of bait-and-switch happens in the telling: Burroughs brings you to the brink of a terrible catharsis more than once, but the break in tension never comes. It is profoundly sad, remarkably tender, and fueled by a sense of love and reverence that only a child knows. --Anne Bartholomew
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