How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed
by Ross Jeffries
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Author: Ross JeffriesEdition: Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 1992-09
ISBN: 0963037900
Number of pages: 80
Publisher: Jeffries Pub
Book Reviews of How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed
Book Review: The devil hath power to assume a pleasing shape
Summary: 1 Stars
"How to Get Women" yada, yada, yada, is yet more fruit plucked from the tree of Neurolistic Programming, a variation of cognitive psychology, that like the long-defunct-EST and Scientology, has created its own lexicon and which rests on numerous "givens" which are nothing more than theoretical constructs, foremost of which is modeling.
The basic idea is that if you know EXACTLY how someone does something, all you have to do is dissect the individuals thoughts and subsequent behaviors and you can replicate the behavior.
Put simply, that's B.S.
How many aspiring college quarterbacks would you guess watched countless hours of film of Joe Montana and were never even drafted?
Whether it's becoming Jack Nicklaus, Jack Nickelson, or Jack Bauer there are simply too many unknowns in the equation to "model" complex behaviors. Beethoven's Fifth Symphony was not only a product of his rare genius that genius was the result of the prevailing zeitgeist of the times, his childhood experiences.etc; etc; and yet, in theory, NLP suggests if you can "model" Beethoven's cognition, you can compose like Beethoven.
Mega B.S.
Back to "How to Get the Woman " yada, yada, yada, and its utterly doesn't-pass- the-laugh-test claim that there are strategies for bedding any woman you desire. Casanova could not even do that and if you plow through his 4,000 page memoirs which touch upon his 200 sexual liasons, you'll walk away with one unambiguous conclusion: NOBODY teaching variation of this pop-psyche drivel was in Casanova's league. He was incredibly eloquent, brilliant, among the best-educated men of his time, an associate of the luminaries of his period, drop-dead gorgeous, unflinchingly courageous, mesmerizing, and had an understanding of the subtleties and mysteries of the female heart comparable to Sherlock Holme's
brilliance in solving crimes and yet he acknowledged being "duped" and frustrated by women throughout his life.
Jeffries would have you believe all he really needed to be the complete package was this book.
Galactial B.S.
What Casanova had which is grievously lacking in Jeffries and his peers ("Professional pickup artists") is a sense of honor. To the crowd that swallows books and courses on this stuff whole, there are few moral lines in the sand. Women are objects to be pursued to relieve sexual tension and how you keep score. "Is she married?" "Not your problem," Jeffries would argue. An affair may be just what she needs although the research suggests affairs are devastating, more times than not to marriages.
This, to me, is the real problem with all such books: they advocate seduction as something outside of conventional morality: the ends justify the means. I have seen many examples of tactics being advocated by other seduction gurus that could (and have) gotten men arrested.
In New York City, for instance, there's a law on the books that prohibits staring at women on the subway.
Check out You Tube. Watch a few of these "candid camera" pickups. Women are lied to, touched without their permission, and in one case actually forcibly removed from the presence of a friend.
Buy this book if you're desperate, lonely, or have been dumped but sleep with one eye open. "The devil hath power to assume a pleasing form." You may wind up sleeping with a woman or two but after the initial high wears off you may notlike the face that's looking back at you in the mirror--the face of a hustler who will quote scripture to serve his purposes.
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