Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited

Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited
by Sam Vaknin

Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited
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Author: Sam Vaknin
Editor: Lidija Rangelovska
Edition: Paperback
Audio: English (Original Language); English (Unknown); English (Published)
Published: 2001-07
ISBN: 8023833847
Number of pages: 600
Publisher: Narcissus Publications,Czech Republic

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Book Review: Dr. Vaknin's book helped more than 30 years of therapy
Summary: 5 Stars

I went through 30 years of therapy so that I and my kids would turn out normal. I didn't know what was wrong with my then husband, later becoming my ex and his family, but I knew they were selfish, thinking only of themselves, blaming me for anything that didn't work out right. Therapists told me I was blowing things out of proportion. ( I had one apologize to me later after only one phone call with my ex. over the kids, telling me I was totally right all along....years!) Friends and even my attorney didn't believe me till paperwork documenting my ex father in law's public threat to kill me, disappeared from the Houston Police Department. Bottom line, my now grown kids shun my current husband and me, who raised them to be kind sensitive people. Out of fear of rejection by my ex and his family, they allow themselves to be manipulated with money and bits of approval. We get to see our own grandchildren, who live less than 15 minutes from us, in the same town, only at lunch at their schools a few times a month. Bottom line, skip the therapy, buy this book. Keep a jounal. Be aware of what is happening and teach your children the manipulation as it happens.

Summary of Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited

When the personality is rigid to the point of being unable to change in reaction to changing circumstances - we say that it is disordered. Such a person takes behavioral, emotional, and cognitive cues exclusively from others. His inner world is, so to speak, vacated. His True Self is dilapidated and dysfunctional. Instead he has a tyrannical and delusional False Self. Such a person is incapable of loving and of living. He cannot love others because he cannot love himself. He loves his reflection, his surrogate self. And he is incapable of living because life is a struggle towards, a striving, a drive at something. In other words: life is change. He who cannot change cannot live.

The narcissist is an actor in a monodrama, yet forced to remain behind the scenes. The scenes take center stage, instead. The Narcissist does not cater at all to his own needs. Contrary to his reputation, the Narcissist does not "love" himself in any true sense of the word.

He feeds off other people, who hurl back at him an image that he projects to them. This is their sole function in his world: to reflect, to admire, to applaud, to detest - in a word, to assure him that he exists. Otherwise, the narcissist feels, they have no right to tax his time, energy, or emotions.

The main body of research about Narcissism is surveyed in the book.

Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Re-Visited offers a detailed, first hand account of what it is like to have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It contains new insights and an organized methodological framework. The first part of the book comprises more than 100 Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) regarding relationships with abusive narcissists and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

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