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1) a sense of the frustration Mr. Clinton felt at the press coverage of his presidency. He talked about what policies he was pursuing that got little or no coverage because the media was focused on "Whitewater World" (I loved that phrase), and the ensuing sex scandal. I think one main reason he wrote this book was to say to us, the American People, this is what I was actually doing as your public servant that you didn't get told about. Although Mr. Clinton never says this, I would go on to say this has much to do with the corporate ownership of our news sources. I very much appreciated him taking this venue to tell us now.
2) A very clear picture of his attempt to follow "the Third Way" (neither "liberal" nor "conservative"} and to create a plan for our country that was not purely defensive to one side or the other.
3) an interesting sense of how public office, particularly the presidency, works. Of course there isn't time to give a complete picture, but I did get a sense of the types interests, crises, power-struggles, and personal moments that one has to balance to live a life like that. I felt more connected to the Presidency as an office, and find myself more interested in the nightly news now.
4) I am a liberal democrat and agree very much with most of Mr. Clinton's policies, priorities, and world view. His book reinforces that for me. It also helped to hear his understanding of (and anger about) the upsurge of the Far Right, and contrasting them to other (more old school) Republicans, including even Nixon. It helped me to be able to take apart the monolithic block of "Republicans" and see the different strands of thought. It would have helped me more at the time of the impeachment trial if the Republicans didn't vote so solidly as a block, but there were a few lights in the darkness.
5) I was terrified reading about Kenneth Star (and was terrified by him at the time) and the office of Special Prosecutor run wild. I was also heart-broken that Mr. Clinton didn't have the foresight to avoid signing the papers authorizing the office, but I admired Mr. Clinton explaining how this happened, as I admired his admissions of other mistakes he made. To me, this was about de-mystifying politics, and heros/villians. He is human and his mistakes help me understand more about humanity and how power works.
6) I am grateful to have a picture of how we got from there to here, and for the gift of a "road-map" vision of what could be possible for our country, from someone who knows more than most about realistically how the democratic process works. I have felt a lot of despair in recent years about the direction of our country, and this book gives me a lot of hope. I loved how he pulled the impeachment clash out of the mucky details (without disavowing them) and put it in perspective as the upheavals in trying to deal with the huge changes that the internet and globalization are having on the world - and how many (most) react with fear and want to go back to when it was "safe." In the Epilogue, Mr. Clinton gives us 5 things that the U.S. should be ding to lead the way. If you read nothing else, read that (though it rests better on the weight of what he's said before this.)
7) I appreciate him sharing his early life with us. I know a lot about the dynamics of alcoholism, and his story rang very true. I also understood about the "parallel lives" he describes, and how that can play out in self-destructive ways, but how it developes in the first place.
8) I get a huge kick out of Michael Moore's approach towards exposing hypocrisy and he's an important voice, but Mr. Clinton's approach is just as valid, if not more, and has more meat and workability.
I must say I think we were very luck to have Bill Clinton as our president and I hope we can do as well again sometime soon.
A VERY IMPORTANT READ!
The former White House intern scorned Bill Clinton's explanation that he had an affair with her "just because I could," and accused the former president of failing to correct the record and make clear their relationship was mutual in his new memoir.
In her first public comments on the book, "My Life," Lewinsky accused Clinton of trying to destroy her with his characterization of the affair as something dirty and wrong, and argued the liaison was one of mutual affection.
"I really didn't expect him to go into detail about our relationship" in the book, the 30-year-old Lewinsky said in an interview with The Daily Mail.
"But if he had and he'd done it honestly, I wouldn't have minded. ... I did, though, at least expect him to correct the false statements he made when he was trying to protect the presidency."
"Instead, he talked about it as though I had laid it all out there for the taking. I was the buffet and he just couldn't resist the dessert," she was quoted as saying.
In an interview with Independent Television News broadcast Friday, Lewinsky said she was especially upset by Clinton's assertion on CBS' "60 Minutes" that he embarked on the affair "for the worst possible reason. Just because I could."
"I was really upset when I first heard it," Lewinsky said.
Clinton, in an interview Thursday on CNN's "Larry King Live," said he realized the comment could sound harsh but that it was not intended to offend Lewinsky.
"When I say I did it because I could, if you take it out of context it sounds jolting and snipping and arrogant and unfeeling toward Monica Lewinsky or my family," he said, according to a CNN transcript.
"That is not what I meant ... Anybody who's lived a certain time has made some mistakes. If you look back on your life and you think about the things that you did wrong that you knew at the time you shouldn't do, about the best explanation is you did it because you could. Not just in this context - in many contexts."
Lewinsky said she had spent the past several years trying to "move on" and build a life.
"It has been so difficult because of so many of the lies that he has told about me and about what happened," she told ITN.
"I can understand someone wanting to save his presidency. But I don't accept that he had to completely desecrate my character, which not only affected me, but my family, my friends and my future."
Lewinsky noted that when prosecutors began pressuring her about her affair with the president, she was the same age his 24-year-old daughter, Chelsea, is now.
"How would he feel if (Chelsea) was trashed by the person she had had the relationship with - a person who has denied it to save himself - if she was called a liar, a stalker, crazy, stupid?" the Daily Mail quoted Lewinsky as saying.
She said Clinton, 57, has tried to rewrite history in his book.
"Having read some accounts of what was in this book, I was already disappointed, but curious," she said. "Probably still a bit naive, thinking, well, maybe there's a surprise, maybe he'll be a different, more mature person than what we have seen in the past few days. But I was wrong," she told ITN.
"I really didn't expect him to talk in detail about the relationship, because he is a married man and he has worked hard to stay married and it would be inappropriate, I think, to discuss the details.
"But what I was hoping, and did expect, was for him to acknowledge and correct the inaccurate and false statements that he, his staff and the DNC (Democratic National Committee) made about me when they were trying to protect the presidency. His strategy to try and defeat (former special prosecutor) Ken Starr was to debase my character."
"In the process he destroyed me."
Lewinsky said her relationship with Clinton had been mutual, "from the way it started, all the way through."
"My memories of it were much more positive. I think that I had enjoyed someone being so happy to see me, and certainly the gifts that were exchanged were touching."
The broadcaster declined to comment when asked whether it had paid Lewinsky for the interview. The Daily Mail did not immediately respond to an inquiry from The Associated Press.
I'm glad I read this book. It doesn't appear to be ghost-written like so many other celebrity books. The first part of the book has a lot of info on the man that I didn't know. Altogether, the memoir is almost a thousand pages long, only really like 15 pages on Monica. Clinton's opponents would call it a feeble and very transparent attempt for him to clean up his image. There's very little sex, so some readers will call it uninteresting; but if Clinton had put more sex in, others would criticize him for pornography. Half of the book doesn't even cover his presidency, just his rather typical mundane bureaucratic pre-presidency life. Hilary is hardly mentioned. My favorite part though is later on where he talks about that vast right-wing conspiracy panty-raid witch-hunter Ken Starr and how he tried to get me but couldnt (haha!), I survived the impeachment and got away with purjury and obstruction scott-free thanks to my cunning, I consider it my "badge of honor"; I'm a little flawed but otherwise I'm a wonderful exceptional human being, look what I am, look what I've done , me, me, me. Conservatives will find some of the supposed lies or half-truths nauseating, along with other incidents like where Clinton cliams that Hilary supposedly didn't know about his thing with Monica and then when he told her, she made him sleep on the couch for 2 months. Yeah f*ckin' right, Hilary was at one time almost as much of an adultress as you were an adulterer, Bill, and besides, your best friends said how you would turn each other on in bed by re-counting the sexual details of each others extra-marital affairs to each other hehehe. Anyway, there are many shocking and controversial things about the Clintons that you just won't read in this memoir, understandably. For example, you won't read about that allegedly true incident where Clinton admitted to a friend that Hilary was a lesbian; supposedly she has a history going back to her college days. My attitude to Clinton is very complex, feelings of like (his intellect, charm, charisma), dislike (his unethical conduct, hypocrisy and lies), and pity (he could have been such a great positive force for good, but except for a few foreign policy victories and some rather minor domestic successes as well as being lucky enough to preside over America's biggest economic growth,--except for those things, he basically "blew it"). Here is a guy who had all the gifts, but he very easily allowed himself to be corrupted by power and ambition and to take the easy (unethical) ways out to get to where he wanted to go. Also, this guy's sexual escapades are something else. He was a lady's man, but supposedly also a rapist. He allegedly raped a woman while wearing dark shades and bit her lip till it bled. Then of course there's that blonde bimbo Jennifer Flowers and others. And who can forget Paula Jones and about how he got one of his staff to call her into his office up there, so she comes in and they chat a little, then suddenly he pulls his pants down and tells her to "kiss it". None of this is in "My Life" by Bill Clinton. But this book will do two things: it will make those who hate him despise him even more; and it will make those who love him sympathize with him even more. Whatever his shortcomings, Clinton is one truly memorable president who will go down as one of the most memorable presidents, for better or worse. Will our children and grandchildren love him or hate him? The future will reveal the answer.
David Rehak
author of "Love and Madness"