She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
by Ian Kerner
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Author: Ian KernerReader: Ian Kerner
Edition: Hardcover
Audio: English (Original Language); English (Unknown); English (Published)
Published: 2004-06-01
ISBN: 0060538252
Number of pages: 240
Publisher: Collins Living
Book Reviews of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
Book Review: I'M A THINKING MAN
Summary: 3 Stars
At least I am now that I read this book. It is written in a highly readable style, amusing and thoughtful, and the information is wonderful. While I know the techniques necessary to make a woman come, whether it is oral or through intercourse, I still found this book worthwhile. The tone and detail made it superior to many books on this subject. I bought it at the same time I bought The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex, and I had not only all the information I would ever need about going down on a woman, but the extra bonus of being able to call my lover's attention to the flip side, which is all about fellatio. Two great books!
Summary of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.Welcome to the world of SHE COMES FIRST, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay -- simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.
Fun, informative, and easy to read, SHE COMES FIRST is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.
SHE COMES FIRST exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."
"When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price
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