The 48 Laws of Power
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First of all though, one must remember that we only effectively learn from anything when we question what we read/see/hear. So, when I was reading 48 Laws of Power it wasn't so that I could swallow it whole. I asked, 'where could I use that in my life? what benefit would that have to me? why would I want to do that?!'
It's about situational awareness; knowing whats going on around you and then using the good/bad techniques that will help us in that predicament.
I draw a parallel to the book to How to Lose Friends and Infuriate People, which was an adaptation to Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. If you read the former in a literal sense, you'd do just that - lose friends and infuriate people. It is reading between the lines that has all the benefit.
48 Laws of Power has helped me already, even after just a couple of weeks. It's not silver bullet, but it has helped me start the journey to effectively dealing with many of the powermongers around me.
It was interesting to employ one of the techniques Law 4: "Always say less than necessary" - as I read it, I started thinking about someone I know who has _so_ employed this tactic on me! Initially quite frustrated, I decided to try it out myself. So, imagine my suprise when one of our following discussions I put him on the backfoot by giving him very little, but asking questions of him ! He told me stuff about how he felt about colleagues which I'm sure he later wished he hadn't. Its not so that I can use that against him. But it has shifted a balance in my favour, I didn't use it as an offensive technique - but as a defensive.
48 Laws of Power is a good read, with some good stories to illustrate the successful ways to employ these techniques, as well as examples of what happens when you do the opposite of these "laws". I will not employ some of the laws (I have serious problems with anyone implementing Law 7: "Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit" but isn't it amazing - I bet we all can think of someone that does that!).
However, knowing that all these laws do occur somewhere, with someone... means we can be more effective in combatting it when it happens.
If power is what you want and nothing else - look no further, get this book and put it to use. This book is based on historical research going back 3000 years! The author deserves tremendous respect and applause for such a monumental work.
I used to be concerned about the clear lack of fairness and justice in the world but after reading this book, I just shut up. It is obvious from 3000 years of historical information that the easiest route to gaining power is through that of manipulation. The operative word here is 'easiest'. There are other routes that could achieve a fraction of the results at a much great effort. If one wants to pay the high moral price, the methods are clear and documented. If not, there is no reason to waste energy complaining that life is not fair.
The only caveat to reading this book is that the alternative to power through manipulation is quite fulfilling. Though you may not have as much power as you think you deserve, you will be happy and have some of your higher emotional, spiritual, and social needs satisfied. So it comes down to a choice and only you can make that choice based on your individual situation.
To be fair, not all of the laws involve sacrificing your personal values, ethics, and morality. For example, Law 9 says 'Win through your actions, never through argument'. This makes sense and is the same as the old proverb 'actions speak louder than words'. No great danger in following this law.
There are hundreds of actual quotations by very famous and infamous people spanning the past 3000 years throughout the book. The 400+ page book has a very nice and readable format with the quotations on the side of each page in red. If you wanted to just read the quotes, you could open any page and read the notes on the side written in red.
So explore this powerful journey of a book at your own risk! Good luck!
this book is essential for STEP 2 i.e. to be able to get what you deserve.
i personally had got tired of missing out on what i deserved.
there are so many examples of getting swindled or missing out on something that you will learn/realise/recognize. you will
definitely become an expert at STEP 2 - gettin' what you deserve.
GOOD QUALITIES
1) fables,quotes,stories in red along the columns illustrate the point.
2) covers the wisdom of a very long series of strategists/politicians
3) there are points that will make you want to kick yourself
- because you did the exact same mistake or did not realise what someone else was pulling.
4) even points that people will call immoral - and that is one of the main criticisms of this book - will make perfect sense
once you read it - but please read the whole chapter before complaining about morality
5) please do not pretend you live in a utopia - power struggles are everywhere - you can either choose to use this book to arm yourself and plunge in OR protect yourself (and what belongs to you) from people who can't wait to exploit you
WARNING
This is not a ten commandments type of book - you cannot go out and start following the 48 laws without using your common sense and personal value system as checks/guides, else it might very well harm you
Conclusion
i'd like to end by saying that this book is like having a discussion with the shrewdest and wisest statesmen and strategists of past ages and learning from their experiences.
do not miss this opportunity. If you live in an ideal/dream world then give it a miss - ignorance is bliss.
If you live in the real world - BUY THIS BOOK NOW, YOU WILL
THANK YOURSELF FOR BUYING IT.