The Art of Seduction
by Robert Greene
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Book Reviews of The Art of Seduction
Book Review: Seducing is an art
Summary: 5 Stars
About three years ago, I bought this book after seeing it on the night stand of a guy I was "dating". At the time little did I know that he was trying to "seduce" or rather manipulate my feelings. As I read through the book, I flipped through the book I found myself getting angered. I never confronted the guy but went to the nearest library and checked this book out for myself. I read it from cover to cover in an entire weekend. Let me say it straight I WAS GETTING PLAYED. They guy played on my weakness and used them to his advantage. I had fallen into all the traps that Greene stated--UGH! So I decided two could play at that game. He never knew I had read the book and I ended the relationship abruptly giving no explanation. Talking about leaving someone who was giving me mixed messages, confusion, head games ect the same way was icing on the cake.
I suggest if you don't want to be played, manipulate, or decieved I suggest you read this book. I'm not suggesting you start attempting to find and practice "victims" but get a better self understanding and realization as to why you fall prey, how it has happened, and the warning signs when you see a person doing exactly as such. After reading this book, I had a eye opening experience that allowed me to weed out the "no gooders/game players" while in in the dating field and not waste my time.
Book Review: NOT JUST ABOUT GETTING LAID
Summary: 5 Stars
This book talks about what motivates people and how to exploit it to get them to do things...yes, the book infers sex, but it also includes getting you to buy things, to accept certain beliefs...in general, to be sold.
Some people would find this repulsive, but like the 48 Laws of Power, this book focuses on explaining power...it is up to the person to use it for good or evil.
Personally I view it like martial arts. A martial art class teaches the power of a particular fighting style SO you can defend yourself better. Ditto for learning about the power to motivate people to do things. This knowledge can be used to defend oneself from the CONSTANT barrage of sales pitches we endure every day.
Though detailed explanation, prose, and examples, Greene explained sales approaches, victim theory, and executing the sale. From it I more thoroughly discovered the weaknesses I had that allow people to push my buttons. Usually it is a combination of victim types. Now, I am better prepared to (a) address those weaknesses and (b) prevent others (and myself) from seducing or selling me into doing things I shouldn't. Not to mention, I am more able to motivate others to do the right thing.
I certainly don't want to oversell the book, but I think reading it will cause a real solid step toward becoming self-actualized.
Book Review: Great if you have no morals
Summary: 1 Stars
I got this book when it first came out 6 years ago. I used it to seduce the guy who was blowing me off at the time. It worked, but at what end. It never turned into a successful relationship. then i used it on the next guy, and he found out it turned into him trying to use this book on me for six years. IT is ridiculous. Wound up being alone from this book. Youd have to be an idiot to fall for this. This guy might sound like an expert, but there are much more authoritative texts, such as the bible. this goes against everything in the bible. Not to mention there are many other great thinkers who would disagree with the author of this book. Whats worse the guy/girl doesn't fall for you becuase they love YOU. they are addicted to rejection. is that the reason you want someone to be with you? You can also never give yourself to them totally (say you wanna marry them) becasue then they would lose interest. This book is worthless. It is a real shame this guy is getting rich off of peddiling his evil. Also he mentions great stories of history to back up his points. there are MANY MANY MANY 1,000S of more stories where no evil was practiced and the endings were better ... You must be a sedistic person to implement this book and be able to carry it thru to the end. you will also wind up alone. dont buy this demonic book. think of it as poisin, keep away.Book Review: Read it and see how it applies
Summary: 5 Stars
This book has been one of the most eye opening and thought provoking books I've read. I like to think, and I love taking in the words and thoughts of an author and having a 'conversation' with them. I had to read this book more than once to fully get it and see its genius. I've since read it a few times. I loved the anecdotes from history used to explain the points. I loved seeing how many times I've been accidentally using a seductive tactic (if you've ever wondered why people fall for you, this book might help illuminate what you're subconsciously doing right) and why it worked. I loved connecting the dots--linking the points to my life and seeing the patterns in relationships I've been in and those of my friends and family. Most people are somewhat predictable, and this book helps to explain basic psychology. It helps me to be a better friend and give better advice, to explain the actions of others to my friends who are frustrated and confused by their relationships. It cuts through to the core of relationships and can be very illuminating if consumed and applied to your life. At the very least it brings history to life, at the very most it can illuminate the power of relationships, unleash your personal effectiveness, and help you to be a more understanding, thoughtful, and charming person. Seriously.
Book Review: For the More Evolved Lover...
Summary: 5 Stars
A Masterpiece. Not a neatly-bulleted, big print "how to" book for your less intelligent consumer; it is an extremely in-depth treatise on the art of seduction. And do not be fooled, it IS an art.
Some may question the ethics or morality involved -- if you are one of them, why even read a book entitled "The Art of Seduction"? For those who know that all's fair in love and war, these Machiavellian-like principles work and have stood the test of time, however distasteful and painful it may be to admit.
Be warned however, guys looking to "pick up chicks" probably won't be able to grasp the subtlety required here.
These principles are not limited to one's romantic goals and endeavors, but can be used to improve self-awareness and confidence in all social situations as well. Read the chapter on "The Anti Seducer" not only to improve your love life, but to improve your basic social skills as well. Think you've got that down? Think again. Most people have at least one of the anti-seducer traits.
If you are like me, and love reading anything to do with human psychology, you should find this book intriguing at the very least. Love it or hate it, it beautifully illustrates the power of seduction, and how to attain the mind-set and skills to wield it.