The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence

The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence
by Gavin De Becker

The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence
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Author: Gavin De Becker
Edition: Hardcover
Format: Bargain Price
Published: 1997-06
ISBN: N/A
Number of pages: 334
Publisher: Little, Brown and Company

Book Reviews of The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence

Book Review: The Single Most Important Book You Will Ever Read
Summary: 5 Stars

First of all, I must tell you I have read this book twice, but my daughter has read it 7, yes seven, times. She has worn it out and I have replaced it 4 times. She can quote most of it directly and is now one of the most forthright and aware people I know. I have bought 11 copies of this book. 4 for her and one for my other daughter and one for each of my daughters-in-law and for my 2 best friends. Of course I have 2 myself. I honestly believe it is a MUST READ for every woman, mother, and daughter. There is not a woman (or man for that matter) that would not benifit from this book. Even if that benifit is just being more aware of your surroundings. That alone, could avoid a possible confrontation or worse. Besides the copies I have personally purchased, I can't begin to tell you how many women I have encouraged to read this book. After reading it, every one of them reported feeling safer and some acknowledged an experience, in which they believe, information gleaned from this reading helped them avert a potentially risky and/or dangerous situation. Please, please buy it, check it out at the library or borrow it from a friend, but read it (at least once). It can't hurt and it could "save your life".

Summary of The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence

A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers to help carry a woman's groceries. Is he a good Samaritan or is he after something else? A fired employee says "You'll be sorry." Will he return with a gun? After their first date, a man tells a woman it is their "destiny" to be married. What will he do when she won't see him again? A mother has an uneasy feeling about the nice babysitter she's just hired. Should she not go to work today?

These days, no one in America feels immune to violence. But now, in this extraordinary groundbreaking book, the nation's leading expert on predicting violent behavior unlocks the puzzle of human violence and shows that, like every creature on earth, we have within us the ability to predict the harm others might do us and get out of its way. Contrary to popular myth, human violence almost always has a discernible motive and is preceded by clear warning signs. Through dozens of compelling examples from his own career, Gavin de Becker teaches us how to read the signs, using our most basic but often most discounted survival skill - our intuition. The Gift of Fear is a remarkable, unique combination of practical guidance on leading a safer life and profound insight into human behavior.


Each hour, 75 women are raped in the United States, and every few seconds, a woman is beaten. Each day, 400 Americans suffer shooting injuries, and another 1,100 face criminals armed with guns. Author Gavin de Becker says victims of violent behavior usually feel a sense of fear before any threat or violence takes place. They may distrust the fear, or it may impel them to some action that saves their lives. A leading expert on predicting violent behavior, de Becker believes we can all learn to recognize these signals of the "universal code of violence," and use them as tools to help us survive. The book teaches how to identify the warning signals of a potential attacker and recommends strategies for dealing with the problem before it becomes life threatening. The case studies are gripping and suspenseful, and include tactics for dealing with similar situations.

People don't just "snap" and become violent, says de Becker, whose clients include federal government agencies, celebrities, police departments, and shelters for battered women. "There is a process as observable, and often as predictable, as water coming to a boil." Learning to predict violence is the cornerstone to preventing it. De Becker is a master of the psychology of violence, and his advice may save your life. --Joan Price

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