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The Memory Keeper's Daughter: A Novel by Kim Edwards
Book Summary InformationAuthor: Kim Edwards Edition: Paperback Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published) Published: 2006-05-30 ISBN: 0143037145 Number of pages: 448 Publisher: Penguin (Non-Classics) Product features: - ISBN13: 9780143037149
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Book Reviews of The Memory Keeper's Daughter: A NovelBook Review: "Growing Heart to Heart, Beat to Beat" Summary: 5 Stars
Kim Edwards succeeds in this book to describe and relate a cadre of deep human emotions and feelings that are significantly difficult to contain on the written page. The story, which is based on the birth of twins, one of which has Down Syndrome, is the story of primarily great tragedy. Yet Edwards manages to describe the effects of this serious genetic problem and the effects of it on many people's lives in such a heartfelt and truly deeply emotional manner.
The story centers around the birth event of a Doctor and his wife. The doctor is an orthopedic surgeon in 1964. His wife goes into labor on a very snowy night and the obstetrician is unable to make it to his office, where the Dr. and his wife have gone to give birth because they were unable to make it to the hospital in time. The Dr. had also called in his nurse to help him with the care of his wife during and after delivery, but to their great concern, they learn that the obstetrician will not be able to be in attendance at the birth. This situation leaves the orthopedist to be the delivering doctor for his own child.
He is not terrifically troubled about the situation, as he had some obstetric rotation in his medical school training and had delivered several babies during that time. However, he is completely unprepared for the specific events of this particular delivery. Without any witnesses to the birth, aside from himself and his orthopedic nurse, the Dr. delivers the child, a boy, without incident. Yet, what he was unaware of was that his wife was carrying twins. As soon as he finishes the first delivery, he realizes that there is a second birth on the way. As soon as the twin child, a girl, is delivered, the Dr. immediately realizes that the child is a victim of the genetic disorder known as Down Syndrome. It was already known in 1964, that Down Syndrome was a genetic disorder caused by a trisomic (therefore 3 chromosomes instead of the normal two) disorder of the 21st chromosome. This fact had been discovered in 1959 by Jerome Lejeune. How much the doctor actually knew about the condition was probably limited, as these facts were just starting to be understood. However, it turns out that the Dr. had a sister who had been a Down Syndrome child with a typical heart problem, which is often present with the disorder. His sister, whom he loved, had died in her mid-teens of heart problems and that death virtually destroyed his mother's spirit to live. These are the things that were working in the doctor's mind when he made the decision to give the baby to an institution for mentally disabled infants and asked his nurse to take the child there. In addition, he told his wife, that the twin girl had died on birth.
These decisions created a life long cognitive problem for the doctor and an emotional barrier between himself and his wife. He chose to keep the knowledge that the child did not die, but instead was being raised in some other place in the country by his nurse, a secret from his wife. He was aware that his child was alive and well, under the careful care of his nurse, who took the baby as her own. This emotional struggle is what Edwards so aptly describes in her book. Not only the struggle of the doctor, but also the struggle of his wife, who deals with the death of a child, and also the emotional distance that the events created between herself and her husband for the rest of his and her life.
While the doctor was surely aware that the condition was a genetic disorder, he was probably not aware of the rarity with which the condition would repeat itself in his particular case. Since the trisomic non-disjunctive event that caused the condition was almost assuredly attributed to his side and not to his wife's, since he had a sister who had the disorder, he probably did not know that in that case, there was a very miniscule probability that the situation would repeat itself in another birth. This fact is because only 8% of Down Syndrome children are a result of the condition in the male, as opposed to 88% as a result of the condition in the female. Thus his chances of a repetition were highly unlikely, although still possible.
The doctor assumed that he was saving his wife a huge tragedy by institutionalizing the child, as opposed to keeping it. He felt this way because of the huge emotional toll that his sister had on his own family, especially her death at such an early age. He was probably not aware that the average age for Down Syndrome children is about 49 years. In addition, he was probably not aware that with proper care and education, very many of such children can have an almost normal life despite the disorder.
Thus, the doctor, with the best of intentions, gives away his daughter and creates a truly tragic emotional wall between himself, his son and especially his wife. Because of this situation, his wife is constantly plagued by the loss of her child. She is even driven to thoughts of suicidal ideation and the constant feeling that her other child is still somehow near. She is somewhat obsessed with the effect on her son, who lost a twin sister, and how he would be affected by the absence of the sister who grew with him, "heart to heart, beat to beat" in the womb. Ultimately, the emotional absence of her husband, and his emotional suffering as a result of his decision drive them away from each other more and more, to the point of human activities that tend to develop in the light of such strain within a relationship.
Aside from the effects on the doctor's family, Edwards does one very difficult and wonderfully meaningful thing in her book. She describes the growth and development of the Down Syndrome child with her new mother. The child is given the best possible care and developmental environment as her new mother is a nurse, and a person of strong character, who fights society and educational systems to provide for her daughter everything possible so that she can have as good a chance at a normal or at least fulfilling life as the world will allow. This emotional struggle is the counterpoint to the suffering and loss of the birth family. The new mother of the girl is intent on doing what she feels is right for her new daughter. In this effort she is very successful. This success with all its accompanying emotional rewards and difficulties is described by Edwards with impressive aplomb.
The book is extraordinary in the manner in which the author is able to depict all the suffering, happiness, sadness, existential individuality and other deep and difficult emotional content of the story of all these lives. How Edwards accomplishes this feat of wondrous writing is the greatness of this story, this book, which depicts what is so difficult for most authors to capture. Yet Edwards does capture it. And out of her efforts comes one of the finest portrayals of human emotional needs, errors and successes that has been written. The book is recommended for all thinking and feeling readers. Its truly amazing emotional content is something that should not be missed by serious and well read readers. To pass up the opportunity to partake of this book is a loss to any widely read individual. It is highly recommended for readers between the age of 13 and 100 and should be taken as an example of how an author can capture subtleties of emotional content that sometimes seem elusive to even some of the best writers of the last 400 years. It is truly a great read!
Summary of The Memory Keeper's Daughter: A NovelMake this your next book club selection and everyone saves. Get 15% off when you order 5 or more of this title for your book club. Simply enter the coupon code EDWARDSMEMORY at checkout. This offer does not apply to eBook purchases. This offer applies to only one downloadable audio per purchase. Read our feature on The Memory Keeper's Daughter here » Award-winning writer Kim Edwards's The Memory Keeper's Daughter is a brilliantly crafted family drama that explores every mother's silent fear: what would happen if you lost your child and she grew up without you? On a winter night in 1964, Dr. David Henry is forced by a blizzard to deliver his own twins. His son, born first, is perfectly healthy. Yet when his daughter is born, he sees immediately that she has Down's syndrome. Rationalizing it as a need to protect Norah, his wife, he makes a split second decision that will alter all of their lives forever. He asks his nurse to take the baby away to an institution and never to reveal the secret. But Caroline, the nurse, cannot leave the infant. Instead, she disappears into another city to raise the child herself. So begins this beautifully told story that unfolds over a quarter of a century in which these two families, ignorant of each other, are yet bound by David Henry's fateful decision that long-ago winter night. A rich and deeply moving page-turner, The Memory Keeper's Daughter captures the way life takes unexpected turns and how the mysterious ties that hold a family together help us survive the heartache that occurs when long-buried secrets burst into the open. It is an astonishing tale of redemptive love.
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