The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure (Ultimate Guides Series)
by Violet Blue
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Author: Violet BlueEdition: Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 2002-09-11
ISBN: 1573441511
Number of pages: 200
Publisher: Cleis Press
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Book Review: Great Guide for Deep Throating
Summary: 5 Stars
I had recently read, "Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing," by Sadie Allison, and I enjoyed it thoroughly. I had tried out some of her techniques and positions -- and I was surprised to find that her suggestions in both areas had worked out much better than I had expected. Given these successes, I was curious to see if another book, "The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio," by Violet Blue, would teach me even more.
The first half of the book deals with basics, like mental preparation, anatomy, STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) and hygiene. As the "Ultimate Guide," this work's treatment of `swallowing,' though, is woefully scattered and unfocused. And I definitely could've done without the section on how to give oral love to a strap-on, which seemed to me like a total waste of time.
Where this book really shines, though, is in the area of deep throating. There's some nice diagrams which really helped me to understand how the gag reflex is triggered - and how it can be avoided. Besides relaxation and practice, Ms. Blue's best advice for deep throating better - is breathing.
The key, quite simply, is to breath OUT when it goes in, and to breath IN when it comes out - which is actually counter-intuitive, and why most of us end up choking. Ms. Blue also suggests doing this on an empty stomach - which would preclude performing this most loving of acts, unfortunately -- after one has been richly wined and dined! (Poor baby!) Lastly, there's some additional instruction offered on sexual positions which again centered on lifting your chin to position your mouth more in line with your throat, (think sword swallowing).
Other little tips that Ms. Blue offers is to grab the base with your hand - which allows you to push back (to prevent choking) if his thrusting becomes too strong, or to reach around and grab his hips (or rear) and draw him to you - which quite a few men like (since it causes them to believe that you might actually like this!).
In terms of etiquette, Ms. Blue advises you not to worry if you begin to salivate profusely since this is the body's natural way to protect itself. And, she adds, it's ok to make gagging sounds (especially when you're gagging) since a lot of guys are actually turned on by this. (Great!)
Some of the chapters also have cute stories at the end, sort of like `Penthouse Forum.' In one, a woman describes having her friend teach her some of the above - and ends up in sexy threesome (which sounded a little far-fetched, but I enjoyed the story nonetheless).
Of the two books, `The Ultimate Guide' appeared to be written to older women (past twenty) since it had a more formal style. Whereas the `Tickle His Pickle' book is more casual and seems to be targeted to younger women who may be just starting out.
To conclude, my advice is to buy the former if deep throating is something you want to improve - and to get the latter if swallowing is the pleasure you'd like to explore more fully. Either way, enjoy!
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Summary of The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure (Ultimate Guides Series)
With wit, expertise, and an enthusiastic approach, the author of The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus dispels myths and delivers concise information on going down on a man. Featuring a complete resource guide to books, videos, illustrations, and websites depicting fellatio, every tip, trick, and technique for giving skilled and unforgettable fellatio is provided. From talking to your partner about fellatio to male pleasure spots and sexual response, Violet Blue covers rimming, shaving, positions, oral sex games for couples, flavored lubricants, sex toys, and a plethora of oral techniques. Original, unpublished erotic vignettes by Alison Tyler are sure to get readers in the mood for trying out these tips.
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